Free Attachment Style Quiz

20 questions mapping your relationship attachment pattern: Secure, Anxious-Preoccupied, Dismissive-Avoidant or Fearful-Disorganised.

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What is attachment theory?

Attachment theory, developed by John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth, describes how our early experiences with caregivers shape our approach to relationships throughout life. Four attachment styles have been identified: Secure, Anxious-Preoccupied, Dismissive-Avoidant and Fearful-Disorganised.

Your attachment style influences how you handle intimacy, conflict, emotional needs and trust in all close relationships — particularly romantic ones. Understanding it is one of the most profound things you can do for your relationship health.

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